I am a relationships coach and writer with many years of knowledge and experience. I have helped thousands and thousands of women achieve happiness in their relationships. I have seen the pain and suffering first hand, and I've been through it myself...
I had fallen so deeply in love with my boyfriend, Tom, who I met at a party one summer.
He swooped in out of what seemed like nowhere, when I was actually at a low point in my life after breaking up with a man I had been in a relationship with for several years.
We did everything together, and I couldn’t imagine being with ANYONE else. Suddenly, it was like I blinked and suddenly 2 years had passed, and we were settled into a comfortable life together, living in an apartment in the city.
I was one of the lucky ones, finding their soulmate so early on. Or so I thought...
One night I was working at the restaurant around the corner from our apartment.
I had been working there for a few years now as a waitress, and on quiet evenings Tom would come in and keep me company.
My boss hated it, but it was great to have him close to me all the time.
I texted Tom to let him know the rush of customers had gone and to come in until my shift ended. Tom usually texted me back right away, but after half hour with no response, I started to feel a bit uneasy. Why hadn’t he got back to me?
Another 15 minutes went by, and the restaurant was so dead, my boss said I could leave early. YES, I thought, now to go give Tom a piece of my mind my not texting me back!
I quickly walked home. I opened the door, threw my bag and coat on the sofa and walked to the bedroom where I figured Tom must be, ready to collapse in a heap on the bed beside him and chat about my day.
Once I got to the door, I froze. My heart stopped. My entire body started trembling. Right before my eyes was Tom, with a stark-naked woman on top of him.
A few seconds went by, and I tried to say something but nothing came out. I was in such total shock I couldn’t even open my mouth to yell at him.
Suddenly, Tom’s eyes met with mine. He let out a loud scream, and the mystery woman jumped off him and hid under the covers.
The next part is such a blur, I was in such a state I still couldn’t move. I was frozen. The woman scooped up her clothes and left, avoiding eye contact with me on her way past.
Tom sat on the side of the bed, and began to explain said how he didn’t love me anymore. He said he hadn’t for a while, and he was sorry.
I felt like my life was crumbling around me. The only person I’ve ever truly loved, didn’t love me anymore. And things were about to get worse.
“Her name is Tayla.... And... We’ve been together for a while now. I think I love her. I am so sorry, I never meant for you to find out this way”.
“...You and I have just grown apart.”
Tom grabbed a few things and shoved them in a bag while I began to sob on the floor. And then, he left. For good.
The next few weeks were hell. I couldn’t function. I hardly slept. I literally looked like a walking zombie. Everything hurt. My heart, my head, my body.... I just felt broken.
I went into work one afternoon and I was a little late for my shift. My boss pulled me aside.
“Look Hannah... I know you have been going through a rough time. But you have been late every day this week. I am sorry but I need someone a bit more reliable. I am going to have to let you go”
I started blankly at his stern yet concerned looking face. Seriously? This was the last thing I needed. I had no energy to fight him on this. I was too tired.
My eyes were filling with tears so I quickly grabbed my things and ran out.
I was running down the road and my eyes were so blurry from the tears, I can hardly see. I turn the corner and crash into someone.
“Hannah?” I hear a familiar voice and wipe my eyes.
It was Sarah, my friend from college. I hadn’t seen her in years. I was embarrassed, this was not the time for a reunion!
“Are you okay?”
I pause for a moment, then decide to tell her how I just lost my job and explain how Tom was cheating on me.
“Oh Hannah I’m sorry... You and Tom had been together so long. Do you want to talk about it?”
Since I was planning on going to bed to cry myself to sleep, heck I had nothing better to do, so we walked to the nearest bar for a drink.
Sarah listened to my story. I told her all about my relationship with Tom, and how I really thought we were doing well and had no idea. I really poured my heart out. It felt good letting it all out, and she really seemed to care.
We chatted for hours. Sarah told me how she had been through a similar situation.
“My ex up and left me, just leaving me a note saying he didn’t have feelings for me anymore. I thought we were so good together...”
I was surprised, I thought Sarah would be quite a catch! While was drowning my sorrows into my third wine, I thought to myself... You know what, I’m a catch too!
But if so, why did Sarah and I both get our hearts stomped on?
Why is it we couldn’t see it coming?
Why did men seem to want to run when everything seemed so perfect?
“Enough is enough!” I shouted to Sarah.
“We cannot be left in the dark like this again. I HAVE figure out what men REALLY want, once and for all.”
There must be something I was missing. I like to think of myself as a bit of a problem solver, and not knowing why this had happened, was driving me insane.
I went home and stayed up all night, thinking of what I could do to prevent this from happening again.
Then, I decided to do something a little strange... I create a survey.
I asked multiple questions, from what turns you on the most in a woman, to what drives you away from them.
I wanted as many men as I could to give the HONEST TRUTH as to why they get bored of their relationship, what makes them tick, and ultimately, what makes them fall in LOVE with someone...
These men were informed that they could be anonymous so they can be 100% honest, as brutal as it might be.
Hundreds and hundreds of men responded to the survey. And I won’t lie... The results were SHOCKING.
These men didn’t hold back! When going through the surveys I noticed the SAME 5 THINGS kept coming up.
I was mind blown. I totally did NOT think that these 5 principals mattered... but hundreds of men out there sure did think so.
I started to feel a little bit excited that I knew these secrets. And a few weeks went by and I was starting to feel better in myself. I had got a new job at a restaurant, and I was feeling much more confident. Just knowing what I did, made me feel alive somehow.
I was at work one evening when I got the shock my life.
Tom walks into the restaurant....My jaw dropped to the floor. He hadn’t seen me yet so I quickly moved to behind the bar.
A few seconds later, SHE walks in. Yup you guessed it, the woman he cheated on me with.
He takes her coat off, puts her hand around her lower back and they sit down at a table. My stomach is in knots. I don’t want to see this...I quickly tell my boss that I am due for a break and rush out the back door as quick as I can.
I stand in an alley way breathing in the cold air when-
“Excuse me, you dropped this”.
I turn around to see a man holding my cell phone. It must have dropped out of my pocket in my mad rush out of there.
I took my phone from him and politely smiled at him...
“My name Is Eric” He said.
A rush of confidence was soaring through my body, and we started chatting. It felt so good talking to him.
He asked if I wanted to grab a coffee after work.
I was so excited. I felt like I had this unfair advantage over other women... As I knew what men really wanted, and I was about to use the information Hannah told me to my advantage...
We immediately hit it off and chatted for hours, in fact until the café closed and we were being kicked out.
I went home feeling like a new person. So excited to see what the future would bring me. The next morning, I woke up to a text from Eric.
“I really enjoyed last night. When can I see you again?”
Wow. I never thought I’d have a man so eager to see me again. Had what I learned really changed things for me?
Fast forward 1 year. Eric and I are engaged to get married and couldn’t be happier.
I am so lucky to have met him. He showers me with love and affection every day. He sends me sweet text messages when we are apart, we go on dates, adventures, weekend getaways. I LOVE it...
I would never have met Eric if it wasn’t for finding out the truth, straight from men. I had no idea what I was doing wrong in relationships. Conducting that survey was the best thing I ever did.
I had been feeling so lost, so confused. Now I understand how the male mind works, and I KNOW that because of the secrets I have learned, that Eric will always love me, and we will never be apart.
My love life was now perfect. But what about the heartbroken women out there that are getting burned time and time again? Left feeling abandoned and confused...
It’s not fair for them to suffer like this. Those women deserved to know what I knew!
I HAD to change that.
So I decided to knuckle down, work hard and create a fool proof system revealing these secrets, so that any woman could have their dream man fall head over heels for them.
After a lot of research, hard work and late nights we had a complete package put together.
This program is one of a kind. You WILL NOT find this information anywhere else.
This survey really got into the male mind, into the nitty gritty, and revealed more than was ever expected.
