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5 Simple But Powerful Ways To Make Him Feel Loved

By Hannah Jackson
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“One word
Frees us of all the weight and pain of life:
That word is love.”
― Sophocles

Whether you’ve met someone new, or you’ve been in a relationship for some time now, it’s important to keep your connection strong.

As the months and years go by, it's normal for the passion to wind down a bit. But even as that happens, some habits will keep you close to your guy.

Life can get crazy, and a bunch of other things may occupy you and your partner’s time, so that can get in the way sometimes.

But if you can keep his love and attention on you even as you're going through a busy week, that will keep you going for a long time to come.

As much as we'd like to have a one-size-fits-all secret formula for staying happy together, it's really a combination of different things put together.

You’ll need to make the time, effort and loving patience for your relationship to flourish.

But it’s not as complicated or hard as some people think. It’s more about doing the small stuff every day.

On their own, these things might not seem like much until they’ve stacked up over time.

And when you take step back see what you’ve put into the relationship, you’ll be glad you started as early as now.

To get your man to appreciate the full force of your love – and get him to reciprocate – here are 5 Everyday Habits to Make Your Man Fall Deeper In Love With You:

#1: Be the Yin to His Yang

If you're a woman looking for a man, you'll need your femininity to appeal to his masculinity.

In a relationship, there needs to be a balance of both energies. So what you bring to the table matters to both of you.

He needs your feminine essence to complement his masculine side, but it's not about catering to his ego.

Instead, you want to be the woman in his life that knows where he's coming from. You can do that by acknowledging the "manly" aspects of his personality and appreciating them.

Guys love nothing more than being able to look out for his loved ones, and they get an immense amount of satisfaction out of it.

Your guy also feels at his most masculine when he can face a problem head-on and tackle a massive task with his force of will.

And I'm not saying you can't be those things either, but in a relationship, a man wants the privilege to be able to do those things for you.

If you can give him props for that, and recognize his role in your shared connection, he'll be eternally grateful.

Let him be that guy for you by sending words of appreciation and kindness his way.

When he's able to express his masculinity in the relationship, he'll feel like the Superman to your Lois Lane.

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#2: Take Care of Him

Showing your softer, more vulnerable side to your guy isn't weakness. It's about giving him the gift of your nurturing care - and choosing to do so.

A lot of women underestimate the power of acts of kindness in their relationship. But when a guy knows that he's getting personal attention from the special person in his life, he'll feel loved.

As Bob Marley once sang, "You make me feel like sweepstake winner!"

Not only that, your gentle, healing energy recharges his batteries. He can go back to being his most masculine self again and take on the world.

Being together is a matter of give and take, so trust me, he'll want to give back as good as he gets. Doing the "little" things might not seem like much in the big picture, but they add up.

And it will make the connection between you that much stronger. Here are some ways you can start doing that:

- Praise him within earshot of family, friends, and colleagues

- Make him his favorite beverage, or do a Starbucks run and surprise him at work (if you think he's cool with that)

- Gently encourage him to share his feelings after he's had a rough day. Listen to him and let him explore his feelings.

- Send him a couple of texts or messages (less is more, so don't bombard him) every day. It can be anything that makes him feel special, like sending him a silly joke, a quick but heartfelt note, or even a racy message if he seems game for that. A little female attention goes a long way!

- Give him your full attention when you're hanging out together - put away your phone for a while and let him feel your full presence

- Plan a surprise date for him. Do something together that you know he'll genuinely like. Guys love it when they can kick back once in a while and let their partner do the planning or decision-making.

#3: Get His Motor Running

Passion and physical intimacy are the glue of a romantic relationship. Without it, you may as well be platonic friends.

So you need to find small ways you can turn him on in your day-to-day lives. When you make a move on him, it doesn’t have to be overtly sexual – not all the time, at least.

Save the big stuff for when it really counts (i.e., when you’re behind closed doors). During your daily routine, remind him that you’re his lady, and he’s the hottest guy you’ve ever laid eyes on.

Your man will never tell you, but he wants to be a little objectified from time to time.

He wants to know you still turn him on and want to take advantage of him as soon as you have a moment alone with him.

Subtlety is key. Implying it is better than spelling it out.

Try the following on him:

• Anything that draws attention to your figure will get his attention. Next time you’re trying to put something on, ask him to zip you up. It seems casual on the surface, but he’ll know what’s going on when he gets a little glimpse of you.
• Send him a message along the lines of, “Hey honey, hope you’re doing ok. Listen, I’m trying on some swimsuits at the store. Could you tell me which one looks better on me?”
• Here's another one: "Almost finished with my night out with the girls. Feeling a little tipsy. Gosh, hope no one takes advantage of me when I get home later."
• Complement his physicality. Try telling him things like, “You look good enough to eat in that suit,” “I get a little thirsty watching you fix the car,” or “You’re so strong.”

Men love being teased and the slow burn of anticipation.

Make it fun game by leaving a breadcrumb trail for your man to follow. Do it right, and he’ll be more than eager to march to your beat.

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#4: Take Care of Yourself

It might sound counterintuitive to focus on yourself to make your man feel loved. However, this actually makes sense in the bigger scheme of things.

You see, men don’t like to be smothered. Yes, your guy wants your love and appreciation, but not to the point where you’re forgetting your own needs in the equation.

Your man doesn't know it, but he needs you also to focus your energy outside the relationship.

In the back of his mind, he has to know that you’re also doing things that make YOU happy which doesn’t involve him.

Otherwise, he’ll feel like it’s all on him to give you that sense of fulfillment in life. That’s not a healthy dynamic to have.

By maintaining your own identity and sense of independence, it’s a reassurance for him that you’ve got it together.

And this actually makes him more drawn to you.

It works the same way for him. He also needs to provide himself with that fulfillment so he can be a whole person - while being in a relationship with you.

No matter how amazing your guy is, having him in your life isn’t an excuse to let everything else fall to the wayside. BALANCE is crucial, so taking care of the following will make your relationship stable:

• Your health, fitness and overall mental and physical well-being
• Your social life
• Your career
• Your other hobbies and things you’re passionate about
• Any projects you’re involved in (i.e., volunteering at a non-profit, etc.)

And the great thing about going off the radar for a while and doing your own thing is that he’ll MISS you.

Guys have a secret fear of losing you. Funny enough, this is the very thing that makes your man pursue you even harder.

If he knows you’re out there, creating value in the world, that makes you valuable in his eyes.

And when he knows what he stands to lose, he’ll never think of taking you for granted.

So being unavailable from time to time creates some healthy tension. He’ll be enthusiastic about the “chase” and try to win you over again and again.

#5: Let Him Do His Thing

Now it’s time to talk about his independence. As happy as a guy is in his relationship, he still needs to feel a sense of freedom.

Even if he’s married, has kids, a job and a bunch of other responsibilities…

…a guy wants to know that he can pursue things related to his personal development.

That doesn’t mean he’s free to flirt with other women or go on a week-long sabbatical. He just needs to carve out a reasonable amount of time to explore his interests.

Like you, he’s got activities, hobbies and other things that he’s passionate about – not to mention a circle of friends that go with these.

Aside from that, there might be times when he's simply feeling beat from the daily grind and needs to decompress.

Or he might be busy tackling a colossal task that he wants to get off his plate so he can breathe easy.

Most guys are wired to have a laser-like focus on a project, and they’re not as good as multitasking as women.

So, he might seem a little withdrawn - and for a lack of a better word, INTENSE – when he's in this "get it done" mode.

In any case, it’s normal to feel worried because it feels like he’s pulling away and emotionally unavailable.

And I know that sometimes, men can seem aloof and even insensitive. And it makes you want to lock him down more and make sure he doesn’t get away.

But that can backfire and make him want to retreat further - especially when he feels a needy or desperate vibe from his partner.

However, you need to understand that this is part of a guy’s process when he’s got a lot of stuff to deal with. As his partner, you can give him the space he needs to crush whatever big goal he’s working on.

Gently reassure him that you’re in his corner while he’s battling it out. Meanwhile, you can focus on yourself (see #4) and get your own needs taken care of.

Once he comes out of his cave, he’ll thank you for being so supportive during that time.

More importantly, your guy will be able to focus all his energy back on you again.

A lot of women find it tricky to walk that tightrope between not loving their man enough, which makes him feel neglected…

… and being possessive or going overboard – which pushes him away.

The best way to avoid getting trapped in that situation is by knowing what makes a guy DEEPLY ATTACHED to his partner.

Every man has a trigger in his mind - once you know how to activate it, he’ll feel like you’re the only woman who truly understands him.

This is the signal that tells him you’re The One. That makes him want to pour all his love and attention into you - on a level you haven’t seen before.

You won’t have to worry about where you stand with him. He’ll let you know in no uncertain terms how much he loves you…

…starting today, and every day after that.

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5 Signs He’s Not In Love Anymore (And What to do About it!)

By Hannah Jackson
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“Two words. Three vowels. Four consonants. Seven letters. It can either cut you open to the core and leave you in ungodly pain or it can free your soul and lift a tremendous weight off your shoulders. The phrase is: It's over."
― Maggi Richard

There’s nothing more painful than knowing that your man doesn’t feel like he did when you first met.

On the surface, everything might seem fine. To your family and friends, you might look like the perfect couple, and everything's going well between you.

But that small voice in your heart tells you differently. You can't quite put your finger on it, but you know your relationship is in trouble.

And with each passing day, that voice inside you grows louder and louder. Part of you just wants to bury your head in the sand and pretend that everything’s fine.

But you know that sooner or later, you can’t ignore that voice anymore.

As for your man, he’s not telling you anything, and it’s driving you crazy. Sometimes you wish he’d just come out with it and be straight with you.

If you knew for sure that the other shoe was going to drop, you could at least prepare yourself.

But instead, he’s simmering behind his wall of deafening silence.

Meanwhile, you’re stewing in your personal hell, trying to figure out what to do next.

Facing the Truth

When you’re invested in a person, it’s hard to accept the possibility that maybe he’s not the one meant for you. Just thinking about it is painful.

But a lot of women fall into the trap of denial and look the other way. The signs are right in front of them, but they pretend not to see it.

So how do you know if that feeling in the pit of your stomach is just fear talking and nothing more?

How can you tell if he really does want out, but can’t say it to your face?

To help you gauge where you stand with a guy - and what to do next – check out the 5 Red Flags That A Guy Wants to Leave:

#1: He’s Turned Into the Silent Sphinx

Have you noticed your man being more quiet than usual? Maybe in the beginning, it didn't take much for him to share his thoughts with you.

If he had a rough day or something was bugging him, he’d waste no time spilling the beans.

But now things have changed with him. Suddenly, he’s withdrawn and brushes off your questions with, “I don’t want to talk about it.”

It might sound like a textbook male response, but think twice before dismissing this one.

Watch out if the shift in his behavior is drastic. Going from being a chatterbox to stonewalling can’t be a good sign.

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#2: He Can’t Stand Being Around You

You’d think this would be obvious, but you’d be surprised.

I’ve talked to a lot of women who didn’t give this behavior much thought until their man gave them the “I love you, but not in love with you” speech.

So in some cases, spotting this sign isn’t as easy as you think.

Watch out for the following:

• He flips out over the stupidest things, like forgetting to put back the toothpaste near the sink or not replying to his messages right away
• The things he used to find endearing about you before annoy him now
• When you try to snuggle up to him, he tenses up, and his body language says "go away"
• Say goodbye to any sexy time, too - he doesn’t seem turned on by you anymore
• He’s finding little things to bicker about
• He overreacts to innocuous questions or comments and responds defensively
• He used to be laid back and game for anything, and now it seems like he’s ready to snap at the drop of a hat

Now sometimes, there’s a good reason why he’s being so uptight. Maybe there’s another part of his life that isn’t doing so well, like his career for instance.

He could also be feeling burned out and lacking motivation. That happens to everyone at point or another.

However, you should be concerned if there doesn’t seem to be any other factors involved.

If this irrational behavior keeps up with little justification for it, it’s possible that he wants to check out of the relationship.

#3: He’s…. Mean

This is probably more apparent than the other signs. Not only has he clammed up and turned into a grumpy shell of his former self…

… but it seems that the affection he once had has been replaced by a HOSTILE attitude.

His general tone towards you is demoralizing. His words cut deep, especially when you’re in a heated argument.

He just wants to “win” the fight – even if it means saying the most hurtful things that have never come out of his mouth before.

You might even wonder, “Who is this stranger I’m talking to? This wasn’t the guy I met not too long ago…”

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#4: The Love and Affection Have Dried Up

On top of everything else, he’s turned a blind eye to your emotional needs.

He couldn’t care any less if you had a terrible day. He’s not in the mood to hear it, and he’d rather be doing something else.

The same goes for your other needs, too. He no longer makes the time to be together, goes off the radar for extended periods of time…

…he doesn't keep you in the loop with what's going, and he's basically not interested in doing the things a couple is supposed to do.

For all intents and purposes, he’s stopped TRYING.

#5: He Wants Space – LOTS of It

It's one thing for a guy to be unavailable for a while when he's dealing with a work-related task or something equally important.

Those times are expected, and he'll eventually come out of his cave, so to speak.

But what if he's acting like he dropped off the face of the Earth? And what if he doesn't even make the slightest effort to give you a heads up?

Maybe you've repeatedly been sending him messages, asking him what he's doing.

Then he replies with one-liners - or the dreaded "K."

In that case, that could mean that he’s not really interested in coming back.

Is It Too Late?

If you’re seeing only a couple of these signs - and they only happen occasionally – then it could be just a case of “Relationship Fatigue.”

That’s actually normal, and couples lose the spark a bit at some point.

It’s also possible that he’s getting a little TOO comfortable in the relationship. It’s normal for some guys to slack off and drop the ball.

Furthermore, some men have a tendency to take things for granted. These guys might just need a little nudge to remember how good they’ve got it.

Annoying to be sure, but it happens.

However, if you’re seeing a LOT of these telltale signs frequently in your relationship, it could be something more serious.

He could very well be entertaining thoughts of packing his bags and heading for the hills.

But don’t lose hope – there is still something you can do.

You see, I used to be in the same situation. My long-time partner had basically shunned me and he was already one foot out the door.

But I discovered a way to flip a switch inside his head, and it made all the difference in the world.

More importantly, I stumbled upon the difference between making a man feel attracted …

…and making him feel a DEEP emotional attachment to you.

So when I learned how to do the latter, it eliminated any trace of doubt in his mind that I was The One for him.

And the great thing is that it works on just about ANY guy.

Whether you’ve known him for a few months - or a few years - you can make him realize that leaving you would be the WORST decision he could make in his life.

Read the steps on the next page to learn how to turn things around – starting TODAY.

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How To Make A Guy Miss You And Love You More

By Hannah Jackson
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“Now you've disappeared somewhere, like outer space
You've found some better place
And I miss you
Like the deserts miss the rain”

- “Missing” by Everything but the Girl

One of the biggest challenges for a woman in a relationship is dealing with her guy’s knack for being withdrawn or unavailable.

She might notice her man drifting away. He seems to be too caught up in his own stuff and doesn’t pursue her as much as before.

If you’ve been in this situation in the past, you know how scary this is.

It’s a terrible feeling of dread that washes over you – and it seems like you’re losing control.

You can feel him distancing himself from you, but you can’t do anything to stop him.

You want things to go back to the way they were, when he was warm, caring and affectionate.

Maybe you’re wondering, “What am I, chopped liver? What happened to the guy who couldn’t stop showering me with calls, texts, kisses and sweet little nothings?”

He seems to be so occupied with everything else in his life but YOU.

Worst of all, he seems to be perfectly fine without you.

You want to do something – anything - to make those horrible feelings inside you go away.

But it seems like the more you try to pull him closer to you, the more he wants to slip away.

All of this is making you anxious and a little paranoid. You start to watch his every move like a hawk and overanalyze everything he says.

“What did he mean by that?” you wonder, wide awake at night.

Or you might think to yourself, “He didn’t even add a smiley at the end of his message… why is he so cold all of a sudden??”

What NOT to do (a.k.a.  Don’t Make the Problem Worse)

So you go into crisis mode and pull out all the stops in an effort to win him back.

“I’ll show him,” you think, “he’ll get so much love and attention that he won’t know what hit him!”

Then you start smothering him like crazy. You bombard him with sweet messages and call him up throughout the day, make him his favorite meals…

…drop by his office to drop off a snack, try to mix things up in the bedroom…

… ask him how his day was, and just about everything you can think of.

To your surprise, however, he's even MORE withdrawn than before.

It feels like the bigger your effort, the LESS he wants to reciprocate.

And this is the thing about men – when they’re the ones being pursued, it doesn’t feel right to them.

As a man, it’s his job to initiate this kind of stuff in the relationship to fulfill his masculine role.

But you’re thinking, “Well, how else am I going to get him off his butt if I don’t do something about it?”

There’s the rub: men don’t respond to this kind of approach.

The best way to make him ache for you like he used to is by turning back the dial a little bit – NOT more.

If you crank up the affection to 11 when he’s in this uncooperative state, he’s going to want to retreat instead.

Trust me, you’re going to wear yourself out trying to get him to come around. And when you’re exhausted and ticked off, that makes a guy want to pull away further.

I know this is frustrating to hear, but there IS hope.

By playing your cards differently, you can flip the script on him. He’ll miss you with such an intensity that he’ll realize what an idiot he was for taking you for granted like that.

But before you start hatching a plan to win his heart back, there’s something you need to know first.

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The Nuts and Bolts of Romance

From a scientific perspective, certain elements play a part in making him miss you.

Neurotransmitters called serotonin and dopamine are chemicals that swirl around in someone’s brain when they’re in love. Oxytocin, also called the “love hormone,” gets into the mix as well.

All of these combine into a heady, feel-good concoction that kicks in when they’re around their romantic partner.

This is nature’s way of encouraging humans to pair bond and further the species.

And this is also why being in your partner’s presence is so intoxicating.

When you’re around that special someone, your body releases these chemicals, putting you in that warm, fuzzy state of bliss.

Over time, you become accustomed to getting your “fix.”

But what if that person went away for some reason?

The production of love chemicals would come to a screeching halt. Suddenly, all those familiar feelings associated with a significant other aren’t there anymore.

And when they’re gone, you’ll go through a period of withdrawal.

So if you want your guy to feel the pain of your absence, you’ll need to create this effect on him.

Only then will he start craving you again and chase after you like before.

Here are some simple but super effective ways to do it:

#1: Ease Up on the Social Media

Ok, so the basic idea is to get off his radar for a bit so he’ll start wondering what you’re up to.

A subtle way of doing this is by scaling back your online presence. That means not posting status updates every hour of the day and don’t put up photos of every single thing you’re doing.

Also, resist the urge to connect with your guy on social media. Don’t look at his timeline, photo albums or anything else he posts.

Try not to tag him in things in an attempt to catch his eye, or post pictures of yourself with other guys. And don’t send him a private message or post a comment on his updates, either.

Relationship or not, guys don’t like the feeling of being cyberstalked. He’ll see right through these little passive-aggressive games and tune you out even more.

And while you’re at it, practice a good amount of radio silence in general, too. Go dark for a while and don’t text, email or call him.

Remember, guys don’t respond to needy behavior – they respond to no contact.

#2: Don’t Jump the Gun

At some point, he might try reaching out to you. If he calls, don’t pick up and let him leave a voicemail instead.

Then return his call, saying you were in the middle of something when he rang you. It could be something along the lines of, "Hey sorry I missed your call. I was brushing my cat, and he was being stubborn about it. Anyway, what's up?"

(Pro tip: it’s better if you were actually busy so that it comes across as genuine – more on that later.)

In case he sends you a message, don't read it yet. Wait about half an hour before opening, so it doesn't show up as "seen."

And when you do open it, don’t type a response – otherwise, he’ll see those three little dots which tell him you’re writing something.

Doing these will establish in his mind that you’re not sitting by your phone all day, waiting for him to call. And it will tell him that you’re not available at the drop of a hat.

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#3: Work His Senses

As you’re withdrawing a bit and he starts to feel your absence, here’s another step to raise the stakes.

Find something he can anchor his mind to, like a particular dress or shirt you used to wear when you started going out, or a certain perfume you haven't used in a while.

Bring these out when you see him again. These powerful catalysts will knock something loose in his head and take him down memory lane.

Not only that, you’ll give him powerful sensory cues to remember you by. Soon enough, he’ll start craving you when he thinks about your signature scent.

In the movie “Down to You,” Al, the male lead character, broke up with his girlfriend Imogen.

He missed her so much that he couldn’t get the smell of Imogen’s shampoo out of his head. In his misery, Al tried to drink a whole bottle of it.

He turned out ok, but people asked him why he did it. He said, “I thought if I was immune to the shampoo, then I could get over her.”

#4: Put the Focus Back on YOU

I know this is a bit of worn-out advice, but there’s a good reason why.

By pulling back on the time and attention, and directing that towards yourself…

… you’re instantly increasing your value as a person.

This will make your guy remember your worth as a partner, and how you add value to his life.

A lot of women fall into the trap of putting every bit of themselves into the relationship. And when they don't leave anything for themselves, they stop growing as an individual.

Their partner will notice this and think, “Hey, what happened to the fun-loving girl I met? Why is she all ‘about taking care of the relationship’ and asking me where we’re headed?”

It can get to a level where a woman develops a sort of tunnel vision. She becomes so single-minded in making things work with her guy that she ends up turning the relationship into a chore.

Doing this will change you, and you won’t even know it - but your man will.

To avoid this scenario, it’s really crucial that you remember to recharge your batteries. Get your energy, happiness, and fulfillment from other sources aside from your man.

Do the things that you used to love doing.

Reconnect with friends, take on a personal project and kick butt at your career.

Pay attention to your physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. Listen to your own needs and respond to them appropriately.

This way, it takes the pressure off your relationship.

You’ll be refreshed and revitalized – plus, all that needy, desperate energy will go away.

When he sees you being all those things that make you, YOU…

… he’ll realize what he’s been missing out on.

This will make those withdrawal pangs even stronger. It will get so intense that he can’t ignore it anymore and do something about it.

Then watch as he brings his level of effort back to where it was before.

One thing I discovered about guys is that they have a bit of a complex when it comes to love and attraction.

For reasons beyond me, a lot of men need to feel the FEAR of losing their woman. For them, it's the only way can genuinely tell themselves that they're in love.

If anything, this is one of those “You don’t know how good you’ve got it ‘til it’s gone” situations.

And if he needs a little fear to motivate him, then so be it.

By the way, there’s ONE more trick that won’t just make him miss you…

… but also make him DEEPLY ATTACHED to you.

I've talked to thousands of women, and I've noticed a familiar pattern in a good handful of them.

For some reason, these special ladies seem to have NO problem keeping their guy interested and utterly devoted to them. Their men find it almost physically painful being away from the love of their life.

This is what I came to learn about them: they’re the kind of woman that their man would miss in the first place.

There was something about these fantastic women that sent a signal to their lovestruck partners.

And if you send the same signal to your man, it will tell him that you are, in fact, his SOULMATE.

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